Does Your Sex Life Influence Your Productivity? Oh YES

The benefits of sex

The act of sex releases hormones that reduce stress — improving mental and emotional stability. According to Lynn Brown Rosenberg, author of My Sexual Awakening at 70, “If you’ve had great sex the night before, the next day you’re going to feel more powerful, energized, balanced and wanted in a deeply personal way. Engaging in sexual intimacy can make us feel right with the world. We are less stressed and more able to be productive.”

Sex also helps lower stress-related blood pressure in two ways:

1. It increases heart rate, thus improving the efficiency of the cardiovascular system over time.
2. It releases “feel-good” chemicals, such as endorphins and oxytocin, that reduce feelings of anxiety and stress.

Endorphins, which are released during physical activity (including sex), tend to boost mood and reduce pain perception. Oxytocin, the hormone responsible for what we know as love, not only helps bond you with your partner but acts as a natural sedative to promote better sleep. Better sleep isn’t just good for you because it increases your productivity at work — it also strengthens the immune system and helps you live longer. [Related article: 5 Ways to Increase Business Productivity]

How your sex life influences productivity

The Asian Efficiency Sex and Motivation Chart shows how both biology and society are at play in sex:

1. Biological forces drive us to make all efforts to survive and to pass our genes to offspring. These biological forces create “pursuit motivation” — the behaviors we take to ensure survival and reproduction.
2. After sexual activity, we get “post-sex benefits”; these are the biological and social perks we get from the activity — whether or not reproduction occurs.

The motivation and benefits correlate with either an increase or a decrease in productivity, based on what the interaction with society says. We get both good and bad messages because of the combination of what we have to do biologically and how society says we have to do it. [See how other forms of self-care can improve your productivity at work.]

Source: Asian Efficiency

However, research suggests sexual activity among adults has declined in recent years. This is especially true for younger professionals. A 2021 UCLA Center for Health Policy Research study found that nearly 4 in 10 adults, ages 18 to 30, reported having no sexual partners in the past year — up 22 percent from a decade prior. A correlation between sexual frequency and income was also revealed: Young adults who made less money were more likely to forgo sex.

While sex may not be the difference between poverty and a stable career, it can certainly improve productivity in the workplace. Taboos aside, the facts show that sex is not only good for us personally, but it’s also good for business. When we’re physically active and content in our personal lives, we’re less stressed, we get better sleep and we’re in a better mood generally. When we go to work feeling more rested and less stressed, we’re better equipped to face the day and any tasks it brings us.

More business benefits of sex

Higher productivity isn’t the only way a healthy sex life improves your work life. Those feel-good hormones and the general sense of well-being they give you have several other major benefits that are good for business.

Stress reduction

Employers are increasingly focused on supporting employees’ mental health; many companies incorporate wellness initiatives and benefits like yoga and fitness classes.

Outside of the office, you can take stress reduction into your own hands (so to speak) by engaging in regular sexual activity. Both solo and partnered sex reduce levels of stress hormones, such as cortisol; the acts also release other hormones and neurotransmitters associated with better health and wellness. [Related article: 10 Ways to Prevent Employee Burnout]

Better mood

Regular sex can reduce symptoms of depression. Lower stress and increased production of positive brain chemicals improve overall wellness and can decrease depressive symptoms.

Beyond brain chemistry, the nature of physical intimacy puts people in a better mood. Sex offers a feel-good diversion from the stressors of daily life and can help you feel more connected to your partner. This bond improves physical affection as well as sexual satisfaction, which continues the positive cycle.

Higher energy

Sex can also give you more energy by improving your sleep. Again, sex releases hormones like oxytocin and prolactin while reducing cortisol. These hormonal changes can induce drowsiness, making it easier to fall asleep; plus, you can reap the benefits of better sleep the next day. Being well-rested and having more energy will enable you to face the tasks of the day ahead. In fact, adequate sleep is so important to productivity that some employers even let employees nap on the job.

Similar to the relationship between sex and mood, sex and sleep are inherently linked: Higher-quality sleep results in better sexual outcomes.

Fewer sick days

Sexually active people tend to get sick less often. Physical intimacy has been linked with better physical health outcomes: It can reduce blood pressure, the severity of chronic pain and the risk of a heart attack.

Employees experiencing anxiety, depression, or high stress may also call in sick for a mental health day or for any physical manifestations of their condition. However, sex has also been linked with multiple positive outcomes for mental health, potentially reducing the number of sick days you need to take. [Related article: How to Reduce Sick Days by Encouraging a Healthy Workplace]

When sex negatively impacts your work

While sex typically has a positive impact on productivity, too much of a good thing can have the opposite effect. Be cautious of the potential negative impacts of sex on your work life.

It can become a distraction.

There is no clinically defined “normal level” of sex drive or frequency; it depends on the individual and their partner(s). However, a high libido can become a problem if it distracts you from your work or other aspects of your life. In some cases, sexual activity can be compulsive; sex can become the primary focus at the expense of everything else, including your mental health, employment, relationships and finances.

Infections or diseases can cause missed work.

Though sex is generally linked with better health, irresponsible sex can lead to infections or diseases — resulting in more time out of the office. Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) can range in severity of symptoms, from asymptomatic or mild infections to serious negative health outcomes requiring chronic medical care. Safe sex practices and mitigation strategies reduce the risk of infection or disease after sexual activity.

It may impact your decisions.

Persistent sexual arousal can also interfere with your decision-making ability, a phenomenon colloquially called “sex brain.” Physiologically, sexual arousal and behaviors are linked to the limbic (primitive) system of the brain, which can override the higher-level thinking required to make decisions effectively. [Read related: Business Decision-Making: Gut Instinct or Hard Data?]

Skye Schooley and Lucinda Watrous contributed to this article.